People always ask too many questions… Why? What? How? This huge maze of unwanted queries we often lose ourselves to. But remember, you are a strong woman and you can choose to skip these questions. All of us have the right to live our lives the way we want to because You Only Live Once is more than just another popular hashtag. So here are 15 things that you don’t owe anyone an explanation for!
15 Things You Don’t Owe Anyone An Explanation For!
1. Having A Past
Having a past that you would not like to talk about. It’s in the past for a reason!
2. Saying ‘no’
It might be when the nicest guy is asking you out on a date, or your own best friend asks you something too personal to even handle, you have the right to say no without explaining why and don’t ever doubt it!
3. Your embarrassing mistakes
Because don’t we all do that anyway? If you are embarrassed by a mistake or a situation, it’s okay to not have an explanation for it. It’s okay to not discuss. After all, some personal things are kept hidden with good reason.
Loving whoever you wish to love. It’s a choice only you have the right to make.
5. The Selfish Days
Being ‘selfish’ on some days. You can and should be the focus of your life once in awhile. And if you’re having a day focused on stuff that makes you but not the people you’re with, it’s personal and rough, but it’s needed to take day off.
6. Hoping for More
Wanting more in life even when it looks like you have all that you need. Being ambitious is not a sin.
7. Your Choices!
Making a choice that the people in your life don’t understand. If your gut feeling says this is where you belong, then just go with it. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for why and what you choose to do!
8. The Inevitable Change
Changing things about yourself for the better even if people think you’ve ‘changed’ for the worse.
9. Marriage Reasons
Choosing to not marry someone you love, yet. Love and marriage are two different concepts altogether.
10. Career Decisions
Making career choices that your friends and family don’t understand. Once they see how happy you are, they too will come around.
11. Letting Go Of People
You do an explanation to the people that you let go off right? Cutting out people from your life that you believe are toxic even when it hurts both you and them.
12. Forgive, Not Forget!
Forgiving people, but choosing to not forget. It’s okay to be once bitten and twice shy.
13. Mess You Are
Being a ‘mess’ in life that only you can clean up.
14. Not Being In The Flock
Choosing to not go with the flow just because it doesn’t feel right.
Prioritizing people in your life. Putting one person in your life above another is not a bad thing. You just know who needs you more in that moment.